When my son was born, we named him Ayaan. A short, meaningful name that translates to “Gift of God.” It felt perfect—gentle, soulful, and full of love.
But over time, I noticed something subtle. People( few in numbers )paused when they heard his name. One close relative even said, “That’s not a typical name for our background, is it?” No one asked me to change it, but I could sense the quiet curiosity.
And yes, I’ll admit—there was one moment when I wondered, Should I change it? Will this create confusion or unnecessary questions for him later?
But almost instantly, my heart answered back- No.
Because names don’t define who we are. What truly defines a person is the life they live, the values they hold, and the way they treat others. I know the kind of person my son is growing up to be—and that’s what will shape the meaning of his name.
Sometimes, we get caught up in where a name comes from, what it “should” sound like based on our community or culture. But I believe names are above labels. They’re chosen with love, with prayer, with intention. That is what gives a name power.
And here we are today—Ayaan is 10 years old, he’s a bright, kind, and curious child who makes me proud every single day. And everyone loves him.
He’s already giving life and meaning to his name, in the most beautiful way. And truly, that’s what a name should be—a reflection of who you are, not where it came from.
So to every parent who has quietly asked themselves the same question—please know you’re not alone. Trust what you feel. Your child will give meaning to their name, just by being who they are.
And in the end, that’s what the world will remember.
